Post by James on May 2, 2007 17:31:17 GMT -5
Hi, I am here to say that i am Gay and have no proplems with it. The only problems with it is losing friends because they don't like gay people which is unfair. I have been out for about a year and getting to know some really nice people.
To be honest i only tell my TRUE friends but seeing as no one here will know me i think its ok.
If there are any questions that you want to ask me personally or to help you through deciding (if you think you MIGHT be gay) please ask your questions and i will do my best to help you through the tricky time!
"Who should i tell?"
You should only tell whoever you think you are comfortable knowing about your sexuality. I have told some of my "friends" and said to keep it secret until i was sure about my sexuality but they didn't, they wen't round and told everyone in my year! which is hard to cope with when everyone is messaging you asking you if you are gay. As i didn't want some of the people to know i said "NO i am not gay" so the rumour didn't go round more. I choose not to tell my parents yet and they still don't know so keep it quiet for now.
Now, back to the subject. You may tell whoever. Your best friend, close friends, family, some family etc. At the end of the day its YOU who has to feel comfortable about letting some people know.
I hope this is good advice and I hope i haven't bored you!
To be honest i only tell my TRUE friends but seeing as no one here will know me i think its ok.
If there are any questions that you want to ask me personally or to help you through deciding (if you think you MIGHT be gay) please ask your questions and i will do my best to help you through the tricky time!
"Who should i tell?"
You should only tell whoever you think you are comfortable knowing about your sexuality. I have told some of my "friends" and said to keep it secret until i was sure about my sexuality but they didn't, they wen't round and told everyone in my year! which is hard to cope with when everyone is messaging you asking you if you are gay. As i didn't want some of the people to know i said "NO i am not gay" so the rumour didn't go round more. I choose not to tell my parents yet and they still don't know so keep it quiet for now.
Now, back to the subject. You may tell whoever. Your best friend, close friends, family, some family etc. At the end of the day its YOU who has to feel comfortable about letting some people know.
I hope this is good advice and I hope i haven't bored you!