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Post by (¯`•*~Bluey~*•._) on May 16, 2007 23:04:20 GMT -5
((Sorry for my absence but school can get the most of us )) I have a boyfriend but he lives rather far away from me; halfway across the country. We know each other from school(before he moved) and talk everyday on MSN. I thought I'd be able to handle a long distance relationship but I realized I can't. I'm starting to like another guy in my school who happens to be my boyfriend's best friend! I haven't told either of them anything and I know that my boyfriend would get VERY upset if I told him this. But what should I do? Just ignore it till it goes away? Or should I tell one or both of them??
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Post by Michael S on May 16, 2007 23:32:45 GMT -5
Well honestly I think you should move on. It doesn't seem that you are getting what you hoped for from your current long distance relationship. Sometimes these things just dont work out. But I wish you the best of luck on what ever option you choose.
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Post by (¯`•*~Bluey~*•._) on May 17, 2007 23:18:26 GMT -5
I don't really want to loose my boyfriend, we both really love each other but I'm starting to like this other guy and I'm also sure that everyone will think bad of me since we've only been boyfriend-girlfriend for a short time
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Post by Mr. Helper on May 18, 2007 1:21:46 GMT -5
go out with both of them without letting them both know or you can tell your bf that you like another guy but if he cant handle it well then idk but you can try that. theres also the option of telling him that you want to date someone else. long distance relationships dont work for the most part even though youre keeping in touch thruough the internet
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Post by (¯`•*~Bluey~*•._) on May 20, 2007 22:58:37 GMT -5
go out with both of them without letting them both know I've only told this problem to my REALLY REALLY good friend and how ironic, she said exactly the same thing I think I might just ignore it and let it pass because on the weekend I was talking to my bf and I completely forgot about the other guy! I only get "attracted" to this other guy when I see him at school.
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Post by haylie on Oct 3, 2007 15:37:18 GMT -5
Actually going out with both is one of the stressful things you can do! In my personal opinion...I think it's just best to be honest, yea it may 'hurt' with who ever you pibk but, the worst thing to die is lie in a relationship -shakes head- trust me been there done that..
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Post by jenniferisamazing on Jan 23, 2008 21:04:44 GMT -5
Whoever you are attracted to more focus on, and forget about the other guy...and when deciding who you like more dont be hung up on their looks, or how in love with you they are but how much you like them. And also, your probably only getting attracted to him because your missing that physical attention from your bf, so I just think to ignore him, and try new fun things with your bf
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